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Thoughts While Away by prism Greetings Masters, It has been awhile since prism has posted. She missed you all. Due to health reasons she has not been able to keep up with certain things. All this time away has made this one think. Think a lot. So this column is going to be about this one’s own thoughts on some things. She thinks that many girls can relate to them. No matter where you go and what you do you always hear but the sayings: Now, this one has to really ponder on all that. Perhaps years ago when she was discovering the lifestyle and hung out online and read all the books she could of Gor and went by the rules of the “chat” rooms, she would have whole heartily agree on that. And to a degree she still does. By now, most reading this would probably be shaking their heads and mumbling not very nice things about this one. But please, prism asks you be a bit more patient with her and allow her to ramble on. ~~winks and smiles softly~~ Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and own opinions. That’s what makes us so unique. prism has a saying that she goes by, “It may not be her kink, but who is she to down another’s.” This one tries to live by this. And look at everything with a very open mind. Lately, this one is having severe problems in doing this. But she knows she will get through it.
This one doesn’t believe that it’s only a Master’s job to own us and use us as they see fit. Sure this would apply to the days of actual slavery, where people did not have a choice. And they did not surrender themselves voluntarily. They were bought and sold. No choice. They had to listen to survive. They had to obey or suffer the consequences. Owners did not have to care for their slaves. Slaves were bought to do basically manual work and labor. This one isn’t talking fictional book slaves on the planet Gor, or cyber-perfect book slaves. She is talking reality. Why would any woman want to be with a man, surrender herself knowingly, knowing that she will not be taken care of or appreciated? This one wouldn’t. When she surrenders, she wants to know that he will take care of her when she needs things. When she is sick, make sure that she gets better. When she is depressed, be there to hold her. And when she is feeling lonely, know that he is there. No, this one doesn’t see this as coddling, because when she does surrender, she will love him with all her heart. The sight of him will make her want to fall to her knees. She will do anything he wants, be everything he expects. She will take care of him in every way she can. This one knows there are a lot of “SHE WANTS” in there... But really, if a woman didn’t WANT it, she wouldn’t have made the choice to be at his feet. Is this not correct? We say it’s not about US that it’s all about HIM. This one doesn’t know if she agrees. This one feels it’s a two way street and in order to make it all work, it has to work both ways. If a man ignored his slave and treated her like something less than nothing, a woman would not stay very long with him.
A slave is a woman. She may have voluntarily surrendered to a man to be his property but she is still a woman. She has needs like every woman, sometimes more needs. The craving to be at the feet of a strong man, the craving to feel that burn in her belly that only someone she has surrendered to can provide. She doesn’t hurt any less then another woman; she doesn’t feel emotions less then any woman. Sure there is the Gorean saying of “a slave should not show emotions.” But without emotions, wouldn’t we just be robots? How pleasing is a robot to a man? This one would think, it is how a woman who has surrendered handles it. She may think out how to handle it without upsetting her owner. Approach him in a respective manner. When grown women are treated as if they are not adults and still little girls, they tend to react like little girls. Sometimes people forget that a woman who claims to be a slave is still a grown woman, not a “girl,” not a “little one,” she is a woman. This one thinks that certain phrases like that can inhibit a woman for who she is and how she really feels. Perhaps some men prefer this, but this one would think that a grown man would want a woman.
Another phrase from the books, “Slaves are less then an animal,” this may not be the exact phrase but it’s similar. Why would a man want someone less then an animal? Why would any woman want to be treated less than an animal and in reality, some animals are treated pretty darn well.
These are just the ponderings of this one and this one is at a cross-roads. There are so many things that when looked upon don’t make sense anymore. Other things make a lot of sense. Yes, this one wants to surrender with all her soul to someone, but she doesn’t think she should have to be the “book” slave. She wants reality.
John Norman wrote the Gorean novels, this is a fact. That is probably the only true fact about the books. The rest are fictional and sci-fi and fantasy. We read the books, we love the fantasy we get lost and live it out. Perhaps we start on-line, and then we incorporate it into real life. On-line Gor has helped this one get in touch with her feminine side and as a woman wanting a strong man. But is that really “Gorean” or just “natural”? If we read the Bible, it tells a woman to be subservient to her husband, “To honor and obey.” The Bible can be looked upon as a fictional writing as well. Another pondering of this one, why do we look at fictional novels to guide us in how to live our lives? Why do we need a novel or something to justify how and why we live our life the way we do? Why do we have to put a label on it? Why do we insist on using John Norman’s books as an example when he didn’t write them as a self help, just to tick off feminists? And last but not least, why can’t people just except people for whom and what they are?
This one chooses to live her life pleasing a man. What’s so wrong with that? Why should one be looked down upon for that? We don’t look down upon women who do not choose to live as some of us do. Women are just women. We all have the same body parts (at least this one thinks we do), we all breath the same air, just some of us choose to sit and some of us choose to kneel. “Choose” being the operative word. It was our choice. With all that being said, why would any woman, sitting or kneeling, be with a man who would treat her less then the wonderful devoted person to him that she is? So if in being one’s property, wouldn’t one choose to take care of it, so that it last longer and one would get more use out of it?
prism wishes you all a wonderful September. This will be the 5 year anniversary of 9/11. Please keep all the ones lost and their families in your prayers. Godspeed. Until next time... Wishing you all enough prism |
