How does a girl know she is a slave? -by caite` -     We are called slaves...kajira. It is a label that we as Gorean submissives embrace. But how does a girl know that she is a slave? Here are a some thoughts from several kajira!

<pet{MBear}> I am a woman, I know my man owns me, and I am happy, if that is a slave then I am one

<ra`nee{K^}> well ra is submissive by nature, and she believes herself to be slave because she doesnt want to retain control over that which she offers in submission. Knowing this of herself, she seeks the wisdom of a true Master who will understand and appreciate that submission.

<azure{U}> azure believes that each person knows with in themselves if they are true slave. Its a not a question of cybersex making you slave or serving making you slave, but the desire to give up complete control to a Master and allowing him to guide you.. to be willing to accept what he gives you. If you can do that and desire to do that and strive to do that then you are slave.

<caile> because caile's whole body tingles when she knows she had made someone happy and her heart breaks to know she has displeased at any time.

<katterina{BST}r> the fire that burns inside to please with my actions. The ability to learn and to grow into who a girl is to herself and how she can offer that to her Master.

<lilth{ED}> because belonging to another brings me a sense of peace and freedom, knowing that I am no longer responsible for myself, but someone else is. it brings me peace.

<jenni`> This one is happiest when serving, in all parts of her life. She has been that way since she was young, and her quest to serve does not seem to diminish.

<ebony`> ebony is slave, her only wish is to please, and in doing so, that brings a smile to her lips, it is all she needs, she lives to serve

<shandri> when your overwhelming desire to be submissive over powers the domme side, and you are always thinking about it.

<jacinthe> I am a slave because my belly, that was turned on, cant be turned off :) its like the switch is broken.

<myshella{S}> deep love makes a girl a slave... and respect.... I think that without those 2 ingredients, you can't have a successful relationship

<nikola{K}> its just a wanton desire to be used even at cost sometimes and to please in the process.

<lil`leather> it is a part of your inner being, a part that you can't ignore, the part who sees a Master and can't help but want to serve him, do things for him, let him have control and power over you, it is deep within the being of your soul to serve a Man as a Master.

<kabba> kabba's DNA is encoded *slave*; her demeanor, responses, actions, feelings give witness and breathe life of their own accord. she cannot change it, she simply accepts it.

snow`larl{Z} is a slave because my desire is to serve my Master.

<talya> this one knows she is slave by her belly that drives her. The fire can burn so great that is can suck the breathe right from her.

In addition to our hearts and burning bellies, caite believes it is our thoughts, words and deeds which make us know that we are slaves!