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This girl is in a dilemma as her Master who she married based on many promises, has not directed her into the service she desires and needs so much. She has tried to communicate this frustration many times and He has chosen not to discuss it, or will at times discuss it, saying many things, then never following through. How can this girl encourage her Master to return to what He promised and still remain as she needs to be, in service?
dilemma.

Thank you for your response dilemma, this girl will do her best to offer what help she can. In this case it has to be honesty. First a girl would always recommend marrying who a Master is based on what He is at that time, not what He promises to become. The girls of the Gorean lifestyle serve the Free Men and Free Women as it is what is in their hearts. Many times the slave gives with out realizing she is giving, and the Master's take with out realizing they are taking. It is the way the lifestyle meshes within its society. When a Free takes a girl or boy into Their collar, they basically take on responsibility as well. The kajirae and kajirus are basically what Most would refer to as beasts or pets. A great comparison to Earth life is a pet. One wouldn't buy a pet and not feed, water, guide it, and watch it grow. A Free this girl knows once said.. “If You break Your toys, you cant play with them anymore.” But don't forget girls, though some maintenance is nice.. it doesn't mean a Free has to offer it. Kajira/kajirus are there to please the Free. If one is that saddened and miserable within the collar, communication lacking and such, then a girl needs to look deep within herself to see if one needs to beg out of the collar.

Greetings, please help a girl overcome a problem she has with her chain sister. this one has not liked her from the beginning as she found that her chain sister was very devious and has already caused problems that result in this one and her Master being stressed. Master does not wish to rid the chain of this new sister so how does this one come to accept her?
Wondering chain sister

thank you Wondering chain sister for your question to kajira korner. This girl hopes her words help. When a girl accepts the collar of a Free, we give ourselves to that Master or Mistress and trust in Them to know what is best for their needs. The adjustment time for a new sister coming into the house is hard on Aall involved and sometimes very stressful while Everyone is getting used to the surroundings. If the stress is not getting any better, one might chose to talk to their Master but remember you are there to please Him, and both of you offer something totally different. Try to find that something special within her that your Master does and not look at her as a chain sister for awhile. Sometimes it helps during the adjustment period.

Hello to A/all,
Where do you recommend a slave find a Master? Especially a slave who has been recently released from service?
sincerely,
a slave

Thank you slave for sending your question to kajira korner. This girl thinks that is the question of many slaves in the Gorean lifestyle! Though there is no direct answer in regards to it, just suggestions. This one has met several local Gorean Masters whom she first talked to in a Gorean talk radio station on irc, several from a PEX (Power EXchange) gathering. But this one would hope that one wouldn't get to worked up to find a Master, especially just after being released. Give yourself time to heal, and work on yourself. Sometimes the best things pop up when your not really looking for them.

Sincerely,
kajira{Master}