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Tuchuk Haruspex’s Visions for FEBRUARY 2004
While your desire may be for time alone, your selflessness is needed by others right now. Any favors you consider trying to do for others needs to be sure you’re doing it for the right reasons and not expecting anything in return. Patience and persistence are the weapons needed to take your opponents off guard. Trust your instincts when it comes to beginning any new relationships – they require hard work and if you are not at the place right now to put that kind of effort into it, walk away.
You can see the goal but are having trouble figuring out how to get there. Since there is no hurry, take your time to plan your strategy. It appears as if you are going to meet someone who can help you with this early on in the month, but you are going to have to keep an open mind to learn what they can show you. While you may have a hard time opening up to someone important to you, honesty is worth the effort. You are very passionate this month but, if this passion is directed into your career, other relationships may suffer as a result.
While communication is your strong suit in public this month, you might want to be more careful when it comes to communication with close friends and relatives. Most people appreciate your sense of humor, but no one likes being the butt of your practical jokes or sarcasm. A heavy decision weighs on you during the end of the month and while you may be desperate for some kind of resolution, making any kind of last minute decisions are to be avoided.
It's time to put yourself first. Although money may be tight, you should still be able to find ways to pamper yourself without breaking the bank. This shouldn’t interfere though with you handling your responsibilities efficiently and quickly, leaving you time for activites with friends. This may be the perfect time to take on a new activity or skill you’ve been wanting to try. Inwardly your moods may be wavering back and forth, but on the whole you are pretty comfortable in your own skin, but you may feel the need to do some soul searching – at the end of it all trust your intuition.
The time for thinking is over and now it’s time to put your plans into action. Luck is on your side and opportunity is knocking. A close relationship is filled with contradictions and inconsistencies which could leave you doubting it. Take the time to work things out rather than hold a grudge because, if you let it go, you'll regret it. Avoid the temptation to spread any gossip you may hear at the end of the month or it will come back to haunt you later.
Make sure to pay heed to that little voice in your head – ignoring your own sense of insight is sure to be a mistake. In some instances, even so, it may be hard to listen to others’ advice but the sooner you can come to admitting you need help and cannot do everything on your own, the smoother things can go and the quicker rewards will come. There may be some tension building between you and a former friend or lover and it may come to a head – try and listen to their side of the story before making any final judgments.
You may feel that embellishing the truth to get what you want isn’t wrong – but, when it’s all said and done, it’s still lying and will end up costing you more than it’s worth. Allow your more practical side to come to the fore and invest in tending to your financial plans and future. If you need help from someone more experienced in doing so, then make sure to seek them out. It’s your intellectual approach and ability to stay calm in trying times that attracts others to you. While letting go is painful and difficult, when a past love chooses to walk away, there is little choice you have but to learn to accept it – especially since a surprise romance is in your future.
Your flexibility can be your biggest advantage as this month begins, just as your enthusiasm is contagious and infects others around you. It may be natural for you to want to do everything all on your own, but you may need to use all of your resources to accomplish your goals and that may mean using other people’s gifts to get the job done. While you have the temptation to feel nostalgic, remain focused on the future instead of the past. There are big opportunities at the end of the month, but you have to be versatile if you want to keep up. Your devotion to a long term relationship is evident without being too needy while maintaining your independence.
You want to take more time for yourself than you usually do, which may concern those closest to you, but you need this time and your own space. Your feelings for a friend may take a romantic turn so, if this is really what you want, make sure to go slowly and let it develop. Your finances may take a dip but will improve next month. Your friends may try putting you in the middle of a conflict, but you don’t have time for the drama or you will end up taking sides. You may be separated from a loved one at the end of the month for a time.
You might want to remember the adage about curiosity killing the cat – at the very least it could have some serious results. Instead of getting involved in other people’s business, you need to keep your focus on your own affairs right now. It appears though your desire for knowledge, whether wise or not, is fully in control of you at this time and, in your determination, you simply see it as your right to know. This could lead to some displays of temper when you really need a dose of common sense. All in all, you would do well to remember that everyone may not be on the same page as you at the same time you are – and that’s all right.
Your desire to please runs the risk of making you vulnerable to be taken advantage of so make sure to stand up for yourself during this month. It’s not always selfish to look out after yourself and your own needs. All this may make you a tad sensitive to other people’s comments about you but just let it all roll off your back. When you offer your help and it is refused, remember you can make the offer but not force people to accept it. While your efforts both at home and at work are appreciated, personal satisfaction seems impossible these days.
Your difficulty to make up your mind and then stick with your decisions has marked you as fickle and flaky – time to show everyone how wrong they are. Set your mind to something and follow through. Someone is in need of an apology from you – make sure you look them in the eye and your request for forgiveness is sincere. Don’t get caught up in berating yourself for a past mistake or error in judgment - learn from it and move on especially since, if you continue to dwell on it, you will miss an even bigger opportunity for profit or success. Towards the end of the month, look for a surprise from a secret admirer. |