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greetings kajira{Master}

burnout in this girl’s slavery, both in the v/t as well as r/t realm, seems a continuing cyclical problem.....any suggestions on some ways to overcome and handle this when it happens?

in service,
despairing

Dear despairing,

Though this girl has never actually experienced the burn out you are talking of she hopes to give some advice that might be of help to you. This girl encourages any comments from the readers of kajira_korner to be forwarded to kajira_korner2002@yahoo.com.

First if a problem is cyclical, there is usually a reason for such. The need to define the problem is first priority.

• What exactly is it that is on setting the cyclical problem in a girls service?
• Is the problem beginning in real life, or virtual time?
• What is it that is beginning to stress a girl out?
• Is it the serving or is it the surroundings?
• Is work becoming more demanding and the children running rampant?
• Or is it just the emotional pull that leads you to question if you are still choosing to be kajira?

If a girl is experiencing burnout real life and is Owned, she should discuss what she is feeling with a girls Owner. This kajira will always refer back to communication as the main key in real life to make anything work. Many times Master’s/Mistress’s are looking out for the well being of the one in Their care, and might be able to help a girl find what it is that is stressing her out and maybe coming up with a solution that will meet needs of all involved. If a girl is unowned, then she might need to take a step back and think of what it is that she is feeling exactly. Sometimes it might be stepping back from the lifestyle and reevaluating what you thought you were feeling before. Everyone evolves in their lives and sometimes finds something else that works better for them.

If a girl is experiencing burnout virtual time, this kajira would still refer a girl to her Owner to discuss what it is she is feeling with Him or Her. It might be that you are needing to focus more on your real life possibly and step away from the screen for awhile to get things back on track. If a girl is unowned, then she might just want to take the time away from the virtual time to focus on her real life. Virtual time, though all girls have made their fair share of mistakes, is still supposed to be overall a fun place. Not a place to where one would go to be miserable.

Though this rarely happens, if a girl is Owned both in real time and virtual time, maybe its time to beg both Free to talk with a girl at the same time. Maybe explaining your feelings of burnout and anxiety to Them might benefit to you. The Free who collared us made claim upon us, and thus usually look out for the best interests of the girls and boys.

Sincerely,
kajira{Master}