Greetings, Masters, Mistresses, and kajirae,

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One hopes you enjoy this new edition of kajira korner and encourages you send questions or comments to:      kajira_korner2000@yahoo.com     kajira_korner2000@yahoo.com

Dear kajira korner: 
This girl used to be owned, but her Master released her a few months ago. It feels terrible- she gave him her life and now it's gone. She doesn't want to do anything except serve him, but he won't have anything to do with her. She doesn't want to be owned by anyone else, and she doesn't want to live the way she did before she met him. It feels like she stopped living, and just exists. She doesn't go out with friends, she just wants to crawl under the furs. 
Please help! 
Worthless Without Him 

Dear WWH, 
Some amount of grieving is natural when a relationship ends, especially if you are not the one who ended the relationship. Understand that you have a girl's deepest sympathy when she tells you, you have to move on. You may just want to crawl under the furs, you may never want to think about begging another man to own you, but do you really want to merely exist for the rest of your life? 
If this depression has gone on for a while, you may need to seek some outside help in pulling out of it. Being depressed as a natural consequence of something sad happening can become a chemical imbalance and your doctor may be able to help with this. This girl would suggest an appointment at the earliest opportunity. 
Next, you need to START. Start living again. You might not feel like it, but drag yourself out and act "as if". Act as if you want to be out of the house. Act as if you feel a great sense of worth. Shower. Put on make up. Go for a walk. Acting as if is a huge first step in helping yourself out of this quagmire. 
Understand that a continued refusal to help yourself may result in people not being able to give emotionally to you anymore. So, if you won't think of yourself, at least think of the people that care about you and get some help in moving on. 
Yes, you have suffered through an amazingly painful experience. But it will get better if you let it. 
Here is a link to kink aware professionals, a state by state list of doctors, ministers and counselors that will not try to 'shrink' the slave out of you, but will try to help you come through this as the healthiest person (slave and all) that you can be. 
http://www.bannon.com/~race/kap/
one hopes this helps,
kajira{generic}


Dear kajira korner,
What is the purpose of an online serve?
Sincerely,
slowtypist

Dear slowtypist, 
The purpose of an online serve all depends on where you are and who asks. Some will ask you to serve because they want to see a whole lot of skin and jiggly body parts described. Some will ask you to serve to see if you know what "paga" is. Some will ask you to serve because the room is quiet and they want to give you something to do. Some will ask you to serve because they like reading paga serves, because how she writes it can tell something about the girl. Some will ask you to see if you will obey. Last but not least, some will ask you to serve just because they feel like it and just because they can. 
Happy serving!
kajira{Generic}