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kajira{Generic}

Dear kajira korner,

This girl has been dwelling on her question for some time now, and has finally decided to write in and ask.

Slave x does a back flip with a half twist, and is told she is not to do that ever again and gets punished for it. The next day slave y comes around, doing the same thing in front of the same people, and it is unpunished or even commended. This is something that one has seen happen both in channels and offline and one just does not understand. It makes trying to figure out what is correct and what isn't really hard (if not impossible) to figure out. How come some girls get punished and others don't?

Sincerely,
struggling to understand

Dear struggling,

It is the perogative of the free to punish or not punish whomever they choose. It is also the perogative of the free to make all different requirements for every single girl they see. Some allow slack for girls who have been around longer, others hold those girls to harder standards. This is the stock answer to your question and every word of it is true. But wait, there's more.....

There is, though, a question underlying the question you sent and it has more to do with accepting girls getting treated differently. Acceptance comes hard, especially when it has to do with issues that are not simple disobedience. Finding acceptance that one girl is ostracized for lying and another lies with impunity is not easy. Seeing girls married to one person and online without his knowledge and serving another is another toughie. The most pertinent advice one can offer in handling this kind of stuff actually came from a friend of this girl. She asks herself, "How should having this information effect this girl's service?" Another question she asks herself is "why does this matter to this girl?". This girl has found that asking and answering these questions of oneself really does help. Granted, sometimes one has had to chant her questions and answers, but one has found it does get easier to accept as time goes on. Perhaps the reason for that is simply that one has seen time and again girls eventually show their true stripes or perhaps because it gets easier to ignore distracting bits of chaff that float around.

Hope this helps,
kajira{Generic}

Dear kajira korner,
Why would a man suddenly decide to question a girl's slavery? Lately, every time this girl runs into a specific Master, he questions her drive, her integrity and her motivation to the point that she does not know what to say. She answers his questions, but it just does not seem to be enough. She does as she was trained, answering the questions he asks without adding lots of useless information, but still he grills her until she is so flustered and upset that she cannot even speak. Other than avoid him and the places he goes, one does not know what to do. Can you help?

Thank you,
totally upset

Dear totally upset,

The first thing this girl would suggest you do is try to stop taking his questions so very personally. Try to remember that every week there is a new crop of girls who wander around, proclaiming their sincerity and drive to serve only to quit the first time they are challenged in any way shape or form. This may be a test. Yes, it is no fun at all. Yes, it is hard not to take this as an attack, and feel hurt and uspet. No, this girl does not think that avoiding him will help at all in the long run, as it might make you look to him as if you have something to hide and it will not help you handle it if this happens again with another man.

You might, frightening though this is, beg to speak to the Master. If he allows it, you could tell him your feelings and perhaps ask him if there is a way you could better answer his questions. Some men like a girl to answer the question they ask, offering no details or extraneous information while others prefer that a girl offer as much detail as possible.

Last but not least, remind yourself that if this man thought you were worthless, you would be dismissed or ignored as so much furniture rather than subject to questions and interaction with him.

Hope this helps a little, and good luck!

kajira{Generic}