Greetings, Masters, Mistresses, and kajirae,

Welcome to kajira korner!

This girl hopes Yyou enjoy this months edition of kajira_korner and if Yyou have any questions or comments send them to: kajira_korner2002@yahoo.com

Dear kajira {Master},
This one is new to the Gorean lifestyle, and what it means to be a kajira. she wishes to learn, and is very curious about how this lifestyle works, and is looking for the books that relate to the lifestyle. she does not know what this curiosity is stirring inside her for, but she knows that it might lead to something that she desperately wants, and that she actually is deep inside of her heart. This one has a Dominant, and is currently with Him in the D/s lifestyle, that is similar, though set apart from the Gorean lifestyle in which she is curious about. she has been to several chat rooms, and websites, such as this one, and is beginning to find her place, hopefully. she has yet to describe these new feelings to her Dominant, feeling afraid that He would reject them, but has maintained that she will tell Him shortly.

This girl enjoys this kajira korner, and has enjoyed this months, and last months publications. This one also agrees with tamaka{MK}, and you when you both said that we are sisters in chains, and that we do offer support to one another, even though we express these Dominant/Submissive, Gorean, or BDSM lifestyles differently depending upon our needs and wants.

girl looks forward to reading more of the kajira korner, and wishes you to be well.

-faye {NZ}

dear tamaka{MK},
Greetings faye{NZ} and thank you for writing to kajira korner this month! This kajira can understand the curiosity of wanting to learn the lifestyles of the Goreans as she was once in your situation. There are many ways to be able to do research and find the Books of Gor, one of the best and most inexpensive ways kajira has found to do such is to go through ebay.com and do a main search for Gor and many of the books are up for auction there. The other place is to go to www.WorldofGor.com. Also yard sales and used book stores are wonderful places to go look as well, could always be a fun thing to do with a sister with the same interests as well. Some bookstores can do a search for you trying to find a seller of the book your looking for but usually that is done for a fee. There are many different ways to learn as well through the websites and through chat rooms and also through the Power Exchange in your state, they usually have a list of names in the same lifestyle, though their main focus is usually on BDsm. The burning need to find ones self through the lifestyle can be strong and kajira would always recommend not keeping the feelings to yourself. A kajira owns nothing, not even her thoughts are hers, they are her Owners and it is a kajira’s responsibility to always be as honest and open with Him about what is going on inside. kajira prays things work out for you and hopes she has been of some help.
Wishing you the very best, kajira{Master}

Dear kajira korner,

This girl is going to meet a Master she met online for the first time in a year. This girl has trained hard online to be able to earn the privilege to meet Him. But in today’s society, they are not open to someone calling Another Master in public. This girl is very nervous and wonders if there are any “rules” about this that she needs to know of before going to meet Him. One was in BDsm long before and there were some allotted differences in public, and He will be the first Gorean Man one has met off line from chat. Please send some advice this girls way!

kajira in need of help.

Greetings kajira in need of help and thank you for writing to kajira korner. Being able to have the privilege to meet a Master you have met online and grown to trust enough for that is a wonderful experience, but kajira would always recommend having a safe call set up. Basically someone that knows when you will be leaving, where you will be going, who you will be meeting and what time you will be back. That way if anything goes awry, you are able to call them for help. On the first meeting a girl would always suggest meeting in a public place as well, until you get to know Him and His wants and needs better in real life as well. Sometimes Ppeople are not always what they seem to be online as they are off-line. Though kajira would have to say all she has met have been the same and one would think that a true Gorean Master would be. It is the others that girls have to worry about. As far as a rule on what to call Him in public, there definitely is! Ask. This girl was always told there are no stupid questions, except the ones left unasked. This girl has met some Master that wished to be called Master in public, some that chose to be called Jarl so it is not so obvious, a girl has met One that wished to be called Mr. M in public, and another that wished a girl to just use His name in public in response to His statements. So the best rule of thumb is back to the great experience of open communication. “Master a girl needs to beg a question please, only to be allowed to please You better upon the privilege of meeting You.” It is a wondrous thing to be able to ask questions and find the best way to please the Master. A girl hopes she has helped in some fashion and prays your first meeting with Him goes well, sincerely,
kajira{Master}