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Greetings, Masters, Mistresses, and kajirae,

Welcome to kajira korner!

One hopes you enjoy this new edition of kajira korner and encourages you send questions or comments to:      kajira_korner2000@yahoo.com     kajira_korner2000@yahoo.com

 

Dear kajira korner,
Greetings!

This one wonders how best to handle slaves who change their names. It seems some have several addys all with different slave names, yet expect a Master to collar her and spend all his time with her plus get irked when a girl does not wish to talk to them!

Is this the age of "Players"? In fact, is this a true definition of a player?

A girl tries to be polite and understanding but it just gets old! How best to handle this without coming off as snotty?

Sincerely,
hating the name game

Dear hating the name game,

There are girls online who, for whatever reason, are so deperate for attention that they have to use several identities. As far as this slave is concerned, this is a *prime* definition of a player. And a liar and a cheat. This is one problem that this girl has never handled diplomatically, so please bear this caveat in mind before reading further. Personally, this girl would not be concerned with whether the name-gamer feels you are snotty. Fact is, the name gamer is a snake. Yes, you read it right... a snake. Using different names to lead others on and deceive them is the sort of greedy, attention grubbing, dishonest sort of garbage that make men leery of talking to a girl online. Simply, she is a scum who ruins honest girls’ chances to talk to the free. One bad name game experience and most get reluctant to waste their time with slave girls. Having said all of that, one stops to grin sheepishly and address the rest of your question. This girl handles this type of girl pretty! easily: A girl does not volunteer any but the most general of information to them, one always adheres to ATQAH (answer the question asked honestly), and one minimizes her contact with the girl. Just treat her as you would treat any passing acquaintance. If she continues to advise you of her exploits, express your discomfort and find some pressing matter that needs your attention offline. Sooner or later she will get the idea that you are not interested in associating with girls like her. If it seems snotty, well ask yourself, how important is the good opinion of other slaves to you? If the good opinion of livestock (especially lying livestock) has gotten to be that important to you, then you might want to take a bit of a break from slavegirls and spend some time sitting at the feet of the free, to sort of remind yourself why you are here. It is easy to get distracted by the cloak and dagger, one live to live shenanigans of slave girls, but please don’t let it distract you too much or too long. Otherwise, you run the risk of getting way too involved in other slaves’ business, which almost always leads to trouble. Keep your focus on those you serve, answer any questions you get asked with the utmost honesty, and do not gossip about the name gamer. The only other thing you could do (short of busting her in the middle of an open room) to end her deception is to beg the ear of a free person and discuss it with them, and ask them to help you handle it. One would caution you to think carefully about this last option, as it can be a double edged sword. kajira thanks you for your question and wishes you luck handling the name gamer!

kajira{Generic}

 

This girl hopes you all have enjoyed the questions and answers that have appeared in past months. She begs you to please send in your questions or comments, large or small, about anything at all!      kajira_korner2000@yahoo.com     kajira_korner2000@yahoo.com

A girl thanks you for your indulgence.

*smiles*
kajira {Generic}

 

 

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