Why No Man Will Ever Wear My Collar

Hello Readers, Ladies,

The answer to this question is quite simple. I believe that the male slave defined as an equivalent to the female slave does not exist. I can not fathom a man would submit his free will to be at the foot of a woman for any reason. After watching the turmoil that Tarl faced through out the series in regaining his self confidence back should be lesson enough in that males by biological and emotional principals can not fully and consciously give that area of themselves away without losing their entire regard to live. It is in my minds eye a flavor of BDSM that has seeped over to the Gorean philosophy. This does not surprise me in the least. There will always be people that can not live up to the principals in which this foundation is based upon. It is a looking glass in which they peer through and have only the luxury of sensing what is truth, yet never having the experience of living it. I have no desire to have a man kiss my feet, or serve me in any fashion for any reason. If I wished to be part of a fetish lifestyle there are many to choose from. I instead chose to live by the principal of Gor. Gor does not accept males slaves, nor will I.

"You are going to see that you yourself serve me well the pleasures which you denied me from others."

"You are going to make me stand proxy for the services of Telistsia and others?" she asked.

"Precisely," I told her.

"I can not do that," she said."I am free."

I crouched then beside her and thrust her back into the straw. I thrust the scrap of slave rag she wore up and over her hips."I would have to serve you as slave," she said, horrified.

"You will," I told her, "and many times."

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When I first read Fighting Slave of Gor, I had a difficult time getting through the book. Jason never seemed to be the fellow that would follow his natural instincts, and find within him the power of a male. He reminded me of the many fellows that are sharing an equal relationship in today’s times with their females. Jason wanted little or nothing to do with the female slave of Gor. He seemed almost afraid of these creatures. When I came to this portion of his story, I realized that men were not by choice born for submission. That inside of them they have the natural urge to own, to take from life that which pleases them. Jason himself learned all to well the disgust he had for his own slavery, and indeed captured the Mistress that had attempted to own him.

I believe any person, male or female can be enslaved for the right price. If you threaten a person’s weak point, there is nothing they will not give to protect that path, be it children, a loved one, a job. Whatever the passion, if the right intimidation is held over a persons head, they will fall to their knees. Free women were not meant to instruct males at their feet, nor rise above their station. In fact they were given the gift of being women, having the sanctuary in which they too could be pleasing , and beneficial as an aide to their mates.

Ownership. Men by instinct can not be owned, it is against their natural grain. Why?

I feel the reasons why have to do with biological aspects. They are raised through the years under the blanket of having their own families to support, responsibilities that enforce a protecting nature. Father, leader, warrior. Their bodies biologically are structured different from a woman`s to handle harsher work loads. These aspects alone begin to separate us, two genders, unlike one another, for purpose. It was not by luck, or blind fate that we were created differently from men. There is reason. Survival of our species, and adapting to our environment are two specifics that come to my mind. The weak will not survive. It has been proven over and over again in history.

In conversation over the past days I have discovered free women of sorts to become defensive when I state male slaves do not exist. The response to such a statement has been quite surprising to me to say the least. The truth is regardless of Norman writing about the fact they exist or not has little to do with whether they do. Norman wrote about large spiders, and flying tarns, and neither of those exist, yet we enjoy the fiction of such things. The same can be applied to free women, Norman wrote of free women that could not exist as per the books, behind walled gardens, faces concealed from the world, treks to Sardar, and the like. It is easy to separate these issues once and for all. Free women were not fictional creatures that was dreamt up, men of this philosophy are companioned to such women. Men do not have a tarn in their backyard awaiting them for a flight to the local grocery store to retrieve a jug of milk. So I have to ask again, why is it so difficult to separate the fiction from reality in this philosophy.

Fear is the key. I truly believe that a woman that needs to own a man fears her own body, her own emotions. She is afraid to allow her nature to escape her. It has partly to do with trust. She does not rely on the men of her community to safeguard her, nor to make correct decisions concerning her life. Thus, these women need to find that control that is illusionary. Indeed it is an illusion to believe we as women have control over our lives, in this aspect. These women are throwing away the potential within themselves because of these fears instilled in them. The dictions of a Society that has taught us wrong. It is not weak to stand behind our males, and support quietly from the side, it does not make us less to step from the spotlight. Our station does not humiliate nor defeat us, it should do the opposite, renew us.

This month I set out a challenge to the free women who read this column. Ask yourself why you need a male slave, and the purpose he serves, besides sexual cravings, and then ask yourself where submission lays, Is it between the legs, or between the ears?

I believe you know the answer.

I know that I do not require a male slave to feel empowered or understand my nature as a woman, nor do I need a companion to offer these things to me. I can stand alone, I have done so for a very long time. I do know that without a companion I am a bit empty. I wish to run a home, and care for my family on a day to day basis, those needs in me to nurture, and support are there, I refuse to lie to myself, and deny them. That is a choice. I feel it is a logical one, and I am grateful I have a philosophy in which supports those ideals. I believe free women are required to be pleasing to those they commit themselves to, and that would exclude property. There is no purpose that I can find, and I did search long and hard, to include a male who denies his nature in my household, in my life. That is also choice. However this choice is backed by an axiom, and it is called Gor.

Nyre

Intended of Lionheart

nyre@home.com